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Monday, March 24, 2008

Sleep

There was never a child so lovely but his mother was glad to get him to sleep. - Emerson



Mom's favorite things
(to the tune of "my favorite things" from The Sound of Music)
- Written by Hilary Weeks
When I don't constantly nag at my children,
and they just do their chores, like sweeping the kitchen,
when they put the toilet paper back on the roll,
I feel like I've witnessed a small miracle.
Bedtime and naptime and bedtime and naptime
Bedtime and naptime and bedtime and naptime
Did I mention it's nice when the kids are asleep?
These are a few of my favorite things




Every parent can tell you that sleep quickly becomes a very precious commodity post childbirth. Getting the children to go to sleep and stay asleep, especially without direct paternal intervention, is the subject of many books, articles, and discussions between pretty much any mom you may bump into.
I don't really have any more advice to add than what is already available, but I was looking through my pictures the other day and realized that I have a TON of shots of the boys while they are asleep. They are cute and all, but I think the sheer number of pictures says a lot more about me than it does about them.
I love everything about naptime. I love that it breaks up the day into neat little segments. I love that I have a few minutes to myself, I can clean, sleep, read, or whatever I want. And it's quiet, I love the quiet. I also love the renewal; after naps, we've all had a break and are happy to see each other again, we get to play some more!


There is one other perk that I'm afraid not everyone gets to enjoy - my kids talk in their sleep. It is a hilarious insight into the workings of these tiny developing minds. Here are a few of my favorites:

The other night, JJ was growling in his sleep - growling. Before he could talk he blew raspberries and babbled.

Ian has asked for specific toys in his sleep (the blue train, the green car, balls, blankets. . .).

Walking past his room I heard, "I suppose we could mumble mumble. . . "

He also woke up one night screaming "Wash my hands Mommy! Wash my hands!" I said "Fine." and he immediately went back to sleep.

Recently, he was adamant that we go to Grandma's right now, so that he could see Uncle Spencer.

I'm not really sure what a psychologist would make of all this - and I don't think it really matters. For us, it is just another thing about having children to make us smile before we drift of for some much needed sleep.

they don't come any cuter

You have to hear this:



I can not get enough of this kid!

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

I appreciate the permission

Ian - "I want Daddy to put my pajamas on me."

Mommy - "Daddy isn't home. He went to class and won't be home until after you are in bed."

Ian - "Oh. Well, you can be the girl who takes care of these two boys tonight."

Mommy - "Thanks."

Saturday, March 8, 2008

lists

For me, pregnancy is all about making lists. (I know, I'm a nerd) Some I write down, some are just in my head; maybe it is my way of trying to order the uncontrollable, or maybe I just like working toward a deadline. I have a list of 'things to clean before the baby comes,' 'things to read,' 'projects to finish,' 'ideas to entertain the boys while I'm busy with the new baby' (Hey! I could make a list of my lists) I'll spare you my list of 'things to eat when you know you're going to be sick later', and share my list of 'baby songs.' These are songs that I think of when I think of having a new baby in the house again.

Family Tree - Darryl Worley
You're Gonna Miss This - Trace Adkins
I Need Some Sleep -Eels
Dark Brown Is the River -Lullaby Favorites
My Front Porch Looking In - Lonestar
Bad Babies - Adam Bryant/Michael Ford
Baby, Now that I've found you - Alison Krauss
Breath of Heaven (Mary's Song) - Amy Grant
He Is, They Are - Harry Connick, Jr.
Evermore - Alison Krauss
All That She Wants - Wizo
Penguin Lament - John Ondrasik
I Will Survive - Cake

Apparently, babies put me in the mood for country and jazz. This is fast becoming one of my favorite CDs. I think "Family Tree" should be our theme song.

And finally, a list of things I'm thankful for today:

  • Zofran, my anti-nausea medication
  • My NEW DRYER!!!!!!!!
  • The almost spring time weather we've been having
  • My beautiful, sleeping children
  • My dear husband, who hasn't complained once about all the extra work he's been doing since I've been out of commission
  • My warm bed, which is looking more and more inviting by the second

Good Night!